Gain Happiness, to be Perfect and Charisma

We All Learn to be Happy

US Memorial Day May 26, 2003

Dear Friend,

No matter who you are, you seek to be happier with the rest of us. As life changes so is the state of our happiness. We all grow, mature and aim to become perfect.

No matter who you are, you can be happier. Our life is constantly evolving, changing the way we feel. Happiness is a feeling. Our feelings sway with our circumstances, and how we interpret them. To be happy we constantly have to monitor and control our thoughts, to be positive and happy. How we think depends on our beliefs, which are based on what we accepted as truth.

To be happy is a complex process. The more you know, the more complex it gets. We are all believers in something. As believers we need to chose whom we want to believe. There is God the Creator, who has "hidden" himself from us, and there is the Anti-god, whom we think is God. As we reach out to God, we find many religions. The closest religion to God, gives the greatest happiness. It is difficult to know and apply all the principles to be happy. Most people seek happiness without knowing how to find it. They are left depending on their feelings, to find happiness, and that will not allow us to find it.

You must learn how to be happy! Seeing how complex it is to learn happiness, you see why so few people are happy. Most parents lack the knowledge, and the time to teach happiness. They further limited by their occupation and the long working hours. Our "pursuit of happiness" is extremely limited, and misguided.

The daily demand to support your life, prevents you to pursue your goal of happiness. Our environment, of not having money or laws, prevents you to "own" anything. You must "rent" everything. This blocks you to gain wisdom, so you are on a treadmill unable to get off. You can't slow down to gain power to control your life and destiny. Happiness eludes you. You must be satisfied with your slave status, and to live in quiet desperation between life and death.

We are systematically prevented to gain happiness. It seems there is a conspiracy to hold us back to gain happiness. We can't learn it at home. We are not taught it in the schools, and we are misdirected even by our churches.

Our whole society and culture is based on the idea that you have to do everything by yourself. You are kept busy, to limit and discourage you to interrelate with others in a meaningful way. You are forced to keep things superficial, and technical. You are educated not to dare to look at things from others and many perspectives. You are taught to avoid and mistrust others, instead growing in faith, the attribute, allowing you to synergize your abilities and efforts, to find satisfaction.

Our world promotes quick fixes like prostitution, not love which must grow in time and is very complex. Our ways preventing you to gain happiness on every aspects of life. When you finally have time, you are prevented to pursue the "desire of our heart." You are chasing for a mirage, which is impossible to ketch. You are constantly disappointed, discouraged and blocked to gain happiness.

The Two Ways to Happiness

To simplify things there is only God's way and the Anti-god's way Jer.21:8. to happiness. It was hidden from us until now, that God has "hidden" from us and His truth as a "mystery" Rev.10:7. This is the ultimate cause of the conspiracy against us, not to find happiness.

This is still only revealed to a very "few" people. The majority the "many" are still not aware of that they are "deceived" Rev.12:9. This is why the "many" have to find happiness the world's way, the Anti-god's way. This is why you find Oprah Winfry so successful, and so is Dr. Phil and others. They teach happiness by gaining empowerment. Many of the Christian evangelists, like Robert Schuler and his Hour of Power, and others, follow this way, to happiness.

The "world's way" Mat.7:13 advocates that happiness comes by you GAINING discipline, education, accomplishment, power and control, and even salvation. GAINING power gives security, producing happiness. Since we are not eternal, we cover our limitation, by using insurance. The evangelists add to this, by promising God's "blessings" Jn.10: 10, to free us from God's "curses" given to Adam and Cain Gen.3:24.

They are right teaching that God wants us to be happy in this life.
It is still hidden from them, that God's way is the opposite to the world's way. They miss the scripture in Mat.16:25, and many other places where it is declared that "God's way" is through SACRFICE!

To find happiness, is difficult and a very complex undertaking. You must engage your spirit, mind and body, and in this order of priority. A great proportion of us fall in the trap, that they seek happiness only in the physical dimension of life. They give in to their basic, sexual urges, and start a family before they qualify. They are unaware that they promote "lawlessness," make it difficult if not impossible for the next generation to gain happiness. A smaller portion of us, willing to discipline ourselves, mentally. These find much more power and corresponding temporary and short term happiness.

A very small percentage of humanity engage their "spirit of man" ICor.2:11 to gain happiness. Since God has "hidden" Himself, they only have access to the spiritual sphere of the angels, who were created much "lower" than the God Kind Heb.2:7. This limits them to gain their full potential of happiness and joy.

Only the Elects of God Mat. 24:22 can find God's true way Mat.7:14 of happiness in this age of 6000 years, preordained for evil.

It is a blessing in disguise that we are deceived Rev.12:9 and ignorant of God's way. If we have the truth, we would be willing to pay the ultimate price, DEATH to gain it. God hides the truth from us, by not giving us His holy spirit, which gives us the "ability" to finwouldd, act and to live by God's way. Without the holy spirit, God's way is "foolishness" to us ICor.2:14, hiding God's truth, preventing us to be truly happy.

Most nations are poor, and all of them serve the Anti-god, preventing them to find true JOY in this age. They are stuck living under the "curse" of Adam, by working for their existence. They are prevented, shut out from God's "blessings." All nations are like the Gentiles, who have to live without faith Mat.6: 31-32, as Jesus said, un-able to receive the "better covenant" Heb.8:6 which is based on faith, brought by Jesus, who became Christ Eph.3:9.

Individuals, nations, and the angels have no connection with God, thus lack eternal security, the vital basic element to happiness. We individually and collectively live in constant FEAR, not FAITH as it is required by God Rom.1:17. Fear "torments" us, making us to seek even unconsciously, to find the right way, God's way.

The Secret to be Truly Happy

You must recognize that to be happy you have to make a series of choices. You must know that you can't control your feelings directly. You must control your negative feelings, rubbing you from happiness, with your positive thoughts, which are based on your accepted beliefs you hold as truth. As you see, your truth might be not truth, because God has hidden it and Himself. It is given that you are seeking to be happy, the wrong way which at best will produce temporary satisfaction. The world's way is to give yourself to your feelings, which easily can be manipulated to your detriment.

The secret to gain happiness is to acknowledge "God's way," which is the difficult way Mat.7:14. It requires you that you SACRIFICE your life, to gain happiness Mat.16:25. You can't go easy on yourself, and save yourself! The more you are willing to sacrifice yourself voluntarily, spiritually, mentally and physically, "enduring" Mat.24:13 your "suffering" Phil.1:29, the more true security you gain, and the happier you will be.

This true everlasting happiness is impervious to your circumstances, limitations, experiences or feelings. This happiness is based on the true principles of "exchange," of giving a little to gain a lot. It works, because it is not limited to your limited existence. When you start to practice this knowledge you position yourself under God's "better covenant" Heb.8:6, which is only limited by your faith Mat.9:29. This is the temporary religion given to the twelve Apostles by Jesus, the man. Here you multiply your efforts, increasing its value. Here you are starting to receive God's "blessings" Deut.28, eliminating the "curses" placed on Adam Gen.3:17 and Cain, causing God to "hide" from us Gen.4:13-16, that we would be under confusion Dan.9:7, which burdens us, with God's curses, unless you change and accept God's better covenant.

God's "best covenant" gives limitless spiritual blessings, not limited by your faith. This synergize your efforts not multiplying it, by increasing its value exponentially. This covenant was given to Apostle Paul, by the resurrected Christ. Paul called this religion the "mystery" Eph.3:3, based on God's "laws of the spirit" Rom.8:2.

Here you are required to be a "living sacrifice" to God Gal.2:20. As you willing to sacrifice yourself, the more happiness you gain, which is the indication, how much eternal life is in you. Enduring your sufferings with joy, testifies to others that you have God's genuine spirit of love. People will sense that you are not a controlling, threatening person, because your willingness to sacrifice your life for them. This will gain their confidence in time, after they have tested you. This in time will give you credibility, attracting others to you, as honey attracts bees.

You will benefit the most, by growing IIPet.3:18 toward perfection, gaining the ultimate security, eternal life. You, like Jesus will be God in the flesh, having access, and will experience God's limitless resources. Your power will increase to help others in their road of finding true happiness.

Happiness Makes You Perfect

Christ inspired Apostle John to say: "There is noFEAR in LOVE; but perfect love cast out FEAR: because fear has torment. He that fears is not made perfect in LOVE" IJn.4:18.

God's "best covenant" gives you eternal security, and power that you may conquer your fear, and through it overcome DEATH. This makes it possible that now you can become "perfect." God's best covenant allows you to do it progressively being a living sacrifice to God in this life. This is why God gave to His Elects, His newest religion, His mystery to be in the resurrection to eternal life, without dying ICor.15:52.

The other Christians, who do not have access to this religion of God yet, can't develop to be "perfect" Mat.5:48, in this life, so they must enter their eternal security through death. We must ALL overcome the "fear of death" Heb.1:15, because we are told that the "fearful and the unbelieving, murderers, whoremongers, sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in Ö the second death" Rev.21:8. This death is where God, will "destroy both our soul and body in hell" Mat.10:28, to be eternally dead.

God, not to scare you out of your wits, "hides" the truth, as He hidden from Adam and Cain. This is why those who have no access to God's better and best covenants, only have access to limited happiness. This is why they must protect their carnal and temporary life, to the degree of their faithlessness.

You than must become PERFECT by willing to lose your "fear of death!"

If you do, DEATH will not have power over you. Your last enemy God created when He created evil for you Isa.45:7, DEATH will be destroyed in your life ICor.15:26. You by overcoming the "fear of death" will gain eternal security, and freedom from all of your FEARS.

It should make you exceedingly happy, that God has chosen you now, to be among the "FEW" to know how to gain eternal happiness in this evil age Mat.7:14. In this dispensation, age this is given only to a very few. It should make you very happy, that God also given you POWER, with the truth, to gain permanent happiness.

God personally asks you to take TIME to learn the complex principles to gain happiness and through it become perfect. God desires, expects and wants you to be happy and perfect. He wants you to have eternal security, freeing you from this life's limitations, and death, now in this life. God loves you and wants you to live for ever in happiness.

God also needs you, because in His plan it is through you He will reach others, to unite human and angel kinds in Himself individually one by one, "that God may be ALL in ALL" Eph.1:10; ICor.15:28. This is why God hates hypocrites, who tell people what He desires, wants and demands from us, but themselves do not do it. God "hates" cowards, who are afraid to give the sacrifice needed to become perfect.

God hates cowards, because it prevents Him to love them, to lift and elevate them into His glorious God kind, from the lowly human and angel kinds. FEAR, your FEAR limits God, which is an impossibility, yet exist temporarily, as DEATH was created to be a temporary phenomena. Fear, Death was created by God, only for the time of our temporary existence, or until we all go through our creation process, the "operation of God" Col.2:12.

Yes, God desires, orders you to be happy, and perfect, because it is His will for you for all eternity. Nothing less is satisfactory, and will not be accepted. This is a key requirement to be member of His family.

Perfect Happiness is Joy, or Charisma

Actors, great public figures have something we call charisma. This is a power, which attracts others to them, like honey the bees. Charisma allows people to feel connected not through their mind but through their spirit. A person's charisma has the power to bypass the safety mechanism of our mind, based on our intellect, beliefs and value system of self preservation. Charisma can "bypass" the "door of our mind."

The power, charisma possessed by a person who is not "perfect" has the power, if we give it to them, to do us great harm. Charisma has the ability to sway rational, minds to accept and do irrational acts. A charismatic person can change our value system to accept evil as good. Stars are used to sell us, and to accept without us being aware of it, that "evil is good, and good is evil" Isa.5:20, to destroy us. Stars, heroes, champions, experts are used to prevent us to find God's way of happiness. Charisma can also turn us from God's way to the world's way, if we let it.

I am sure you remember Hitler, Stalin, Mao Tse-tung. These became victims of their wrong spirituality, and became charismatic and changed peoples' minds to accept "evil as good," deceiving them IITim.3:13. The power, the charisma of one man swaying a few, deceiving them, caused the many to be deceived, to accept "evil as good." They caused the death of one third of mankind under communism.

Today, stars, heroes, champions and experts are "many," and have "deceived" the whole world Rev. 12:9 that "evil is good" Isa.5:20. If God would not have sent one of His "Two Witnesses" Rev.11:3, even the "Very Elect" would be deceived Mat.24:24, preventing ALL of us to find true eternal happiness, and perfection. Jesus our Christ, who became "perfect" through sufferings Heb.5:8, 9 also had the power of charisma.

Jesus had perfect happiness, having eternal life in Him, by having God's holy spirit "without measure." Jesus was able to connect with the "spirit of man" in people through His holy spirit. Jesus was also able to bypass people's mental limitations, to pass on the un-limited principles of God's eternal world, in spite that their minds being limited, not benefiting from it. Knowing the limitations of man, Jesus spoke in parables, to "hide" the truth Mat.13:10,11.

The people could sense the un-reserved "sacrificial love" Jesus had for them Jn.15:13. They felt that Jesus had and was the truth Jn.14:6. They felt His security, and knew that Jesus had all the answers to their vital questions of life after death, without it even being spoken. People felt in His presence that Jesus came not to harm them, but to sacrifice His life for theirs Rev.13:8b. Those who knew Jesus felt that He came that "we might have life and have it more abundantly" Jn.10:10. People did not had to reason why they were drawn to Jesus. They were aware intuitively, not with their mind, and they KNEW, that they KNEW that they were loved.

The people were not yet equipped and capable to receive Jesus' advanced teachings, yet accepted His principles in their spirit. Jesus had perfect, eternal happi-ness and its JOY which gave Him, the power of charisma, to make others happy in His presence. Literally the "joy of the Lord was His strength," His charisma Neh.8:10. Those around Him received a taste of un-experienced eternal bliss, in this life, which was not available until that time.

Jesus is now in heaven, sitting at the right hand of His Father, until God will make His enemies His footstool Mat.22:44.
God wants YOU to have His irresistible CHARISMA to attract others to His happiness. Now, you are God's "begotten" Son or daughter (there is no gender in front of God.) Now you are the one whom God is using to reach out to others.

This is why if you allow it, people come to you, because they subconsciously, spiritually feel that you have something which they don't. The JOY you have is the sign that you are different. Even if you are poor, persecuted, suffering, if you have God's JOY you will have God's charisma. You will be happy, like the Apostles who were "rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer shame for Christ's name" Acts.5:41.

Apostle Paul instructs us: "that the goodness of God leads us to a change of heart" to obey God Rom.2:4b. God wants you to be happy now, that you may become perfect now, that you may have the CHARISMA to draw others from un-happiness to eternal happiness now. Please count yourself "worthy" of this great honor and do not refuse it like the Jews did Acts.13:46.

God wants and will teach all of us, who are willing to accept it, eternal permanent, happiness. God is starting with you now, as He did with Jesus when He walked on the earth.

I pray that you hear God's invitation as Noah did, that "you may enter" to be in God's Kingdom religiously, legally and financially!
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May Christ bless and protect you.
In the reality of Christ's abundant eternal love, Tom Demeter ***

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